“Hopeless” has to start somewhere right?

CONTINUING WITH TRANSPARENCY The trouble with being transparent in posts like this is that those who may benefit from hearing this perspective may not be in a solution-focused mode…and if they come across this post, they may not be as likely to expend the energy reading it.  I know when I’m in “check-out mode”, you’re … Continue reading “Hopeless” has to start somewhere right? →

TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE

https://giphy.com/gifs/season-6-the-simpsons-6x25-l2JedzvGOueS4E2tO As I woke this Sunday morning, I could tell I was in a place of deeper searching; my heart felt a heaviness…not depression (although I know that feeling well), but a yearning for connection with something of substance at my core.  Perhaps there was some residual effect lingering from last night.  THE LINCOLN LAWYER … Continue reading TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE →

Reflections Outside the Courtroom

(This post was first published in March 2021. I came across it today as I was reflecting...I realized I had more to say.) Yesterday I received a call from a former probation client asking if I would appear in court this morning for his sentencing.  As we talked about his circumstances, I learned that after I … Continue reading Reflections Outside the Courtroom →

COWARD

This is going to be a transparent post about where I’m at right now…and it began with another challenging conversation in my office…but the challenge didn’t come from me. IT WENT LIKE THIS Earlier this week, I engaged in a conversation with a young man who shared an amazing perspective that challenged me personally.  I’ve … Continue reading COWARD →

Normalizing Mediocrity

This past week, I had a client come into my office that inspired this post.  I say “inspired”, but it hardly seems like a fitting word to use in this context.  This experience impacted me by reminding me of how easy it is to slide into undesirable circumstances, camp out there a while, or in … Continue reading Normalizing Mediocrity →

SOMEONE WHO’LL BELIEVE IN ME

If you’ve read my previous posts, you’ll know I returned to a job I left several years earlier as a probation officer.  This is a story motivated by one young man who grabbed my heart very quickly. It was day 3 of my return to probation and as I eased back into my groove in … Continue reading SOMEONE WHO’LL BELIEVE IN ME →

The Man on the Street Corner

Several weeks ago, my path took a radical 180 and I found myself returning to a job I left several years ago.  When I informed a very close friend of my unexpected return to being a probation officer, his reaction somewhat annoyed me because he was excited.  See, I hadn’t wrapped my brain completely around … Continue reading The Man on the Street Corner →

An Irrelevant “gospel”

I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by the grace of Christ, for a different gospel; which is really not another; Galatians 1:6-7 There are times when we cross paths with people who are in genuine need of a miracle in their lives. As options and hope evaporate, we … Continue reading An Irrelevant “gospel” →