QUESTIONING EVERYTHING

“Re-examine all you have been told in school, or church, or in books…” - Walt Whitman The encounter I had this weekend left me pondering some larger questions about life.  I began to think about the term “paradigm shift” as I sat with my wife talking over a beer at a favorite brewpub in Glenwood … Continue reading QUESTIONING EVERYTHING

THE THINGS I’VE LEARNED IN REHAB – Part 3: Oxy, Ice, and …

INTRO TO THIS SERIES If you are just now finding me, there are several previous posts inspired by my rehab process, and I’m including links at the beginning and end to each post for those who find this interesting.  In Part 1, I shared a brief “Intro” to this series, and rather than repeat it … Continue reading THE THINGS I’VE LEARNED IN REHAB – Part 3: Oxy, Ice, and …

DOORWAY TO RECOVERY

(My view of the doorway as I sat in my truck the morning of my surgery) I’ve had two separate experiences over the years that seem to tie together as I consider the concept of "change", and they consistently come back to the forefront of my mind and impact me to this day. I wouldn’t … Continue reading DOORWAY TO RECOVERY

EXTRAORDINARY

I was talking with my writer friend over coffee today and in the course of the conversation, I thought about Michael.  Michael was one of my high school players that I will likely remember for a long time, but for the wrong reasons.  Michael had something every basketball coach wanted but could not teach; he … Continue reading EXTRAORDINARY

TIME RUNS OUT

IN SEARCH OF PERSPECTIVE I’m in the middle of a road trip that takes us to Phoenix for a few days to visit friends and then into SW Utah where we’ll spend some time in Zion and Bryce Canyon National Parks.  I love road trips if for no other reason, because I’m a journey kind-of-guy.  … Continue reading TIME RUNS OUT

WHY WAIT FOR THE BOMB TO GO OFF?

Several years ago, I took a turn down a path that began a process where I started questioning the “truths” of my life.  No topic was safe from this examination process… my childhood… truths about the family I grew up in… religious traditions I’d been a part of for several decades… goals I was chasing… … Continue reading WHY WAIT FOR THE BOMB TO GO OFF?

ACCOUNTABILITY

Before I get too far into this, I want to acknowledge there are always exceptions.  This is not a perfect position to take in all circumstances.  I realize over the years of dealing with people in crisis, the best message I can give them is one where they can see the ability to take back … Continue reading ACCOUNTABILITY

BAD GAS

This is not a post about the impact of bad gas upon the workings of an engine, but for a moment, let’s talk about how bad gasoline can impact your vehicle engine performance.  For those of you who made New Years resolutions, or desire to make significant changes in 2025, we’re 4 days into the … Continue reading BAD GAS

RECOGNIZING THE GHOSTS

(Sometimes, things die in our lives, and they fade away never to be remembered.  But sometimes, the dead things of our past don’t fade away.  They linger... they haunt us... and if we fail to deal properly with them, they will continue to show up and disrupt our futures.) If you’ve followed this blog, you’re … Continue reading RECOGNIZING THE GHOSTS

THE MINDSET OF THE BUS

Started writing earlier this morning (going no specific direction initially) and the phrase which I chose to title this blog post came across my mind.  I paused… I thought about this picture (above) which I have hanging on my office wall.  It beckoned me to slow down and take the next right turn and go … Continue reading THE MINDSET OF THE BUS